On Monday my girl and I met up. We planned our outfits for the three-day (hey the campier the better, the more outlandish the more fun, the more outrageous, the more we get people to talk to us along the way.) We are really excited about the three ay this year. I chose Philly because it is so close to home and I miss home. But today I had another experience.
I was recently told this morning that my participation in the Susan G. Komen Three Day event does not help raise awareness regarding Breast Cancer. Here was my answer. How doesn’t what I do not raise awareness? Help me understand? You just over heard me speaking with my trainer about the walk and the pink community. What goes into planning and training to walk 60 miles. What we must do to raise the minimum which I try not to hold myself too. I always want to raise more and be bigger and be bolder. You decided to add your two cents in and you do not know me. So what do you know about Breast Cancer? Do you know more and more men are being diagnosed but because they don’t think they need to check themselves, it is often in a later stage? Did you know the funds we raise go to help provide free mammograms to people who need them?
Did you know more and more women under the age of 40 are being diagnosed? It is still predominantly found in women over 40 but our Pink community lost one of its own last year at the age of 29. (insert woman’s hand over her mouth.) Yes mam you heard me correctly 29 years of age. This year a friend’s sister was diagnosed at 20 while pregnant. 20 years of age. Did you know that while mammograms will detect a cyst, ultra sounds and sonograms are better (these need to be the standard.) My, albeit benign irregular cyst, was only found because of the ultrasound. Had I not had the ultra sound it would have sat there. It was the cells that can turn (not to say they will but can). So me being able to push the issue and be my own best advocate detected something that could have been potentially harmful.
We wear shirts that say Grope your wife save a life. It gets people talking. The more we get people talking the more we can raise awareness. The more we can share what Komen shares with us. We all share what SGK posts on twitter and Facebook. Maybe our friends get sick of us posting but because we are part of this community we are the voice, we are the faces, we are the ones walking to stomp our cancer and get people to do research learn more and be bolder with their own health. By the way mam, when was your last self check and mammogram? Two years ago (insert my face drop) because you feel your 60 and don’t need to any more? Excuse me? Do you have children? Do you have grand kids? Yes, don’t you want to be around for them? Well of course you do… up walks her hubby… Hey buddy, your wife thinks me walking for SGK for 60 miles is futile. She hasn’t done a self check. Do her a favor… Grope your wife and save your life. AND THIS IS WHY I WILL ALWAYS BE A JERSEY GIRL. Girl turns defiantly on heel and walks away!
Three-day camp after 20 miles